It’s an interesting moment when the roles of parents and children flip. Where your parents used to look after you, you’re suddenly watching out for them. This phenomenon is most evident when they’re sick or require assistance with completing some of the tasks of their daily life, such as grabbing groceries or attending doctors’ appointments.
One area where you may worry about your parents is their hearing. It can be challenging for people to recognize their own hearing loss, especially when it develops gradually as they age. Being aware of the early signs of hearing loss and knowing how to discuss them with your parent is crucial.
Early Signs of Hearing Loss
Keep an eye out for the following signs of hearing loss:
- Turning up the TV louder than is comfortable for others
- Saying “What?” or “Huh?” multiple times in a conversation
- Difficulty hearing high-pitched sounds like children’s voices or birdsong in Watson Lake Park
- Ringing in the ears
- Accusing others of mumbling or getting frustrated when they can’t understand speech
- Pulling away socially
- Feeling excessively fatigued after social events
- Favoring one ear over the other
These signs will likely start subtly and grow more prominent as time goes on.
Talking To Your Parent About Hearing Loss
There’s no more shame in developing hearing loss than there is in needing glasses. It’s just something that changes in your body that you can’t control. Despite that fact, many people are resistant to the idea that they have hearing loss. Keep in mind the following tips before you start your discussion:
- Talk privately. Start by having a one-on-one conversation so your parent doesn’t feel outnumbered.
- Explain the signs first. Remember to start with the reasons behind your conclusion rather than the conclusion itself. Let them know that you’ve noticed them turning up the TV or favoring one ear, and lead into the possibility of hearing loss. It’s important not to frame it as an attack or something they’re doing wrong. Avoid saying things like “You can’t hear well” or “You never understand what I’m saying,” as that’s more likely to make them defensive.
- Be prepared for pushback. Your parent might push back or even get angry at the conversation. Do your best to stay calm, and if they get upset, table the discussion for another day.
- Offer to attend their hearing appointment. Ask your loved one if you can accompany them to the hearing appointment. They’ll feel supported knowing you’re just looking out for their well-being.
- Consider their personality. Above all else, consider who your parent is and how they’re likely to react to the conversation. If they’re a straight shooter, you might want to tell them what you think outright. If you know they’ll be resistant, ease into the conversation.
If your parent is ready for their hearing test, call Prescott Ear, Nose, Throat & Allergy today to schedule an appointment with one of our specialists.